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Porn will always lead to death |
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Whether it's a slow death or a quick one you will be lead down
a path that will only lead to spiritual death and possibly physical
death. |
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Let's consider the "best" possible situation for
a porn addict. He has an unlimited cash flow to pay for porn,
hookers, phone sex, etc. They also have no family members or
friends that they need to hide their addiction from. They are
"free" to indulge themselves to the max. Up to this
point many porn addicts would view this as the absolute freedom.
The dirty little secret about porn addiction is that your senses
become accustomed to what you are doing and the sexual "high"
is not the same for very long. He will find himself inevitably
needing something more vile, more taboo, more risky. Without
mapping out the process in detail, this man will eventually need
something that would never have excited him when he first started,
like snuff films and child porn. Soon enough the only things
that get him off are things that would land him in jail or get
him killed. Unless he stops cold turkey, he will die.
Unlimited funds and no one to condemn him sounded like a porn
addicts dream BUT sin always leads to death... ALWAYS. It will
eventually kill you and you should never fool yourself.
There are others that dabble a little bit at a time and may
never progress down the road to a quick and painful death. They
have what is akin to a slight cold. They are never healthy and
always feeling like crap. They are dying a slow death but don't
even know it.
~PornKills.net Editor
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"19 I speak this way, using the
illustration of slaves and masters, because it is easy to understand.
Before, you let yourselves be slaves of impurity and lawlessness.
Now you must choose to be slaves of righteousness so that you
will become holy. 20 In those days, when
you were slaves of sin, you weren't concerned with doing what
was right. 21 And what was the result?
It was not good, since now you are ashamed of the things you
used to do, things that end in eternal doom. 22
But now you are free from the power of sin and have become
slaves of God. Now you do those things that lead to holiness
and result in eternal life. 23 For the wages of sin is death, but
the free gift of God is eternal life through Christ Jesus our
Lord." ~ Romans 6:19-23 |
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"Over time a man needs 'stronger' porn to get
the same arousal - it's very much like a drug addict needing
more of the drug to get a high, and the same brain process are
responsible for both addictions. The need to escalate
eventually results in the man "needing" to view horrible
things like bestiality or rape, or the same kind of porn must
be consumed in large and larger quantities." ~ The
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"Like alcoholics, sex addicts increase their sexual activity
as they become tolerant to new levels of it. Thus, over time
(perhaps even years), the amount of sexual activity will get
worse. The ultimate consequence may even be death. Some
sex addicts continually run the risk of contracting the AIDS
virus." ~ Mark
Laaser, Ph.D. |
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Pornography leads to death excerpt
from Intimate Issues pp 152 |
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"Pornography kills the soul, steals the heart, and
destroys the mind." Pornography puts to death marital intimacy
and destroys families. Those who engage in prostitution or affairs
expose themselves and their spouse to physical death through
the possibility of contracting a deadly sexual disease. But all
pornographic users face certain soul death because pornography
serves fellowship with God and kills moral consciousness. |
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"I've met a lot of men who were motivated to commit violence
just like me. And without exception, every one of them was deeply
involved in pornography." -Ted Bundy, serial killer |
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Women are not objects |
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Just because there is your favorite candy on the counter and
you know how much you would love the taste, it doesn't mean that
you need to eat it. |
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There is an epidemic in our society today. Young women by
the millions, most of whom have a poor or no relationship with
their dads, are sitting on the counter and giving themselves
away to all takers. Ok, the young horny man may say "All
right!" I was one of those young men who would have reacted
that way. But as I close in on 40 years of age I know different
now. Women are humans, not objects. That may seem like an obvious
statement to many but those who have learned about sex via the
porn industry, believe different.
Just because these lost women asked to be treated like trash
or like a piece of meat doesn't mean we men should do it. Any
woman that want that, for money or not, is a woman who needs
you to taker her in your arms and tell her that she is worth
so much more than she thinks.
This is not a normal human instinct, especially from me. This
requires you to turn your life over to the Lord and to pray for
His strenght and pray for His wisdom to say the right words and
do the right thing when it comes to lost women who sell their
bodies and souls for ca$h.
Women in porn are not objects - though they are treated as
such. They are girls who just wanted to play tea with their daddies
or be loved and protected by their daddies. They are in need
of men of God to tell them they don't need to sell themselves.
They are children of God and very special. Men, step up to the
plate and stop patronizing these porn sites and porn shops and
do what is right.
~PornKills.net Editor |
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"Internet porn is probably the biggest miseducation
system we can devise in terms of sexuality, misuse of women."
- Dr. Mary Anne Layden |
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What if your death means going to prison? |
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Human Rights Watch
provided a full report on Prison Rape and guess what? |
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Those who commit sexual crimes are targets and doomed to be
raped and beaten with no mercy. Here is one quote from an inmate
in that report:
"Inmates confined for sexual offenses, especially
those against juvenile victims, are at the bottom of the pecking
order and consequentially most often victimized. Because of their
crime, the general population justifies using their weakness
by labling rape "just punishment" for their crime.
Sexual offenders are the number one target group for prisoner
rape."
For a larger excerpt and a full report click
here. |
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I am so thirsty I could drink out of the toilet |
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You are just sitting there doing next to nothing and you suddenly
feel thirsty. You walk into the bathroom - sometimes you give
the toilet an extra flush - and you dip a cup in the toilet for
a drink. |
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Who in the world does this? Maybe not many people. People
will typically find the best tasting and purest water they can
find to drink. They don't seek something that could potentially
get them sick or killed. OK, so how do you explain porn and masturbation?
~PornKills.net Editor |
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37 "On the last and greatest
day of the Feast, Jesus stood and said in a loud voice, "If
anyone is thirsty, let him come to me and drink. 38
Whoever believes in me, as the Scripture has said, streams of
living water will flow from within him." ~ John 7:37-38
1 "Come, all you who are thirsty,
come to the waters; and you who have no money, come, buy and
eat! Come, buy wine and milk without money and without cost.
2 Why spend money on what is not bread,
and your labor on what does not satisfy? Listen, listen to me,
and eat what is good, and your soul will delight in the richest
of fare." ~ Isaiah 55 :1-2 |
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Will you know what later will be like? |
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You have a choice at the moment it hits. You want to act out
and give in to temptation because of what temptation promises
now. You need to rely on wisdom and pray. You know that
after you have given in you will not feel good about yourself. |
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Give yourself an hour to see how you feel. Your frustration
and pain may be stronger BUT it will be mixed with a sense of
victory. That will be a different feeling. Your feeling of temptation
will be watered down. Pray and wait another hour. Do this until
the temptation is gone. Now you know the feeling you would not
have know when the temptation first hit you. Ultimately it will
be good.
~PornKills.net Editor |
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"A man who gives in to temptation after five minutes
simply does not know what it would have been like an hour later.
That is why bad people, in one sense, know very little about
badness. They have lived a sheltered life by always giving in.
We never find out the strength of the evil impulse in side us
until we try to fight it: and Christ, because He was the only
man who never yielded to temptation, is also the only man who
knows to the full what temptation means - the only complete realist."
~ Excerpt from Mere Christianity by C. S. Lewis - chapter
on Faith |
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"Happy is the man who doesn't give in and do wrong when
he is tempted, for afterwards he will get as his reward the crown
of life that God has promised those who love him." ~
James 1:12 (LB) |
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Excerpt from "When Sex is Lord" in Pure
Desire by Ted Roberts |
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The fantasy of pornography corrodes the soul with the lie that
sexual pleasure is immediately and easily available. We don't
have to deal with the challenge of relating to another human
being. As we reach adulthood, we don't have to pay the price
of mature love - putting someone's needs before our own. And
we don't have to deal with the pain within; we can just medicate
it with the endorphins and adrenaline generated from a sexual
high. To put it bluntly, we don't have to grow up, emotionally
or spiritually. |
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Pure Water |
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"Nothing will supply the needs, and satisfy the desires
of a soul, but water out of this rock (Jesus Christ), this fountain
opened. The pleasures of sense are puddle-water; spiritual delights
are rock-water, so pure, so clear, so refreshing-rivers of pleasure".
~Matthew
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"We are experiencing an epidemic today of
people who get 'trapped' in pornography." ~
Mark Laaser, Ph.D. |
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Death Becomes Us |
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Our society's propensity for porn is well on the road to killing
us. Soft porn does not sell very well any longer. Internet porn,
which focuses on degrading women and inflicting pain on women,
is the busiest market. This stuff is not subtle at all and, sadly,
there is no shortage of women who agree to be subjected to this
for a few buck. What they don't know is they are paying a price
far greater than they now know. Someday they may be married and
will be holding their baby. When looking in their baby's eyes
they will see pure innocence and flash back to when they sold
their souls (perhaps briefly) to the porn industry.
Porn is getting worse and worse at an exponential pace, especially
on the internet. We can only pray for the pendulum to swing back
in order to save our society's collective life. |
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PornINtheNEWS (click here)
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"The power of Temptation is the deceptive
offer of immediate pleasure without penalty."
- Dr. Charles Stanley |
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"All healthy men, ancient and modern, Eastern
and Western, know there is a certain fury in sex that we cannot
afford to inflame, and that a certain mystery and awe must ever
surround it if we are to remain sane."
- G.K. Chesterton |
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Tips for Maintaining Sexual Integrity